Life of a woman from childhood is a series of endless problems.The day SHE graduates from childhood to adulthood ,HER Life enters into an inevitable suffering.
After getting married, women leave her priorities, parents, place where she was born and what happens with all those sacrifices,she comes last in the priority of her husband’s list and the saddest part is she BECOMES A GUEST IN HER OWN HOUSE AFTER MARRIAGE.
Whatever MAN gives a woman,she multiplies . If you give her love , she’ll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she’ll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she’ll make you a meal. If you give her a smile, she’ll give you her heart. In a nutshell she multiplies and enlarges whatever is given to her , but unfortunately in some cases she gets humiliation and physical abuse in return .
A lady working in a MultiNational Company relates to me in grief how frequently she has been tortured by her HUSBAND .Besides that she still continues to put the common markers that signifies married women ,following the ‘Karwachaut Brat’ serves her family unquestionably. I asked.“ Is Marriage Symbols ,rites and rituals symbolizes ;Tradition, Identity Or Shackles”.
She couldn’t reply to me . All the justifications are only meant for the husband’s wellbeing or to protect the marriage. None are for the benefit of the woman herself who is sporting it.
Domestic violence or intimate violence involve;
Calls you names,insults you or puts you down
Prevents or discourages you from going to work or school or seeing your family members or friends
Try to control how you spend money, where you go, what medicines you take or what you wear.
Acts jealous or possessive or constantly accuses you of being unfaithful.
Gets angry when drinking alcohol or using drugs.
Threatens you with violence or a weapon
Hits, kicks, shoves, slaps, chokes or otherwise hurts you, your children or your pets.
Forces you to have sex or engage in sexual acts against your will.
Blames you for his or her violent behavior or tells you that you deserve it.
Matrimonial cruelty has now been made a cognizable, non-bailable and non-compoundable offense .Yet in large parts of the world domestic violence is still seen as “accepted by the victims ” or “she must have done something to deserve it” this is a view held by both men and women.
WITHOUT A WOMAN , A MAN IS INCOMPLETE
Basically what is required in a relationship is understanding the behavior psychology of the partners to have a blissful and stress-free life. And somehow if every effort falls apart making relationships turn toxic then it’s wise to move on .